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Narcissists (and other manipulators) ask for full body shots because it is their way of seeing if you’re willing to send them something so personal when they barely know you. I was not really interested but he kept talking to me. “dave 1/6/2018 PM Report this message for inappropriate content Is there a nude image in this message? I meet one on a dating site I never heard of them before that. Narcs get to “show off” and titles and credentials while looking for those secretary girls OR sugar Mamas- but she can’t make more than him (can go either male or female here) and that Narc can think that’s s a “federal employee” he is “amazing” and makes a lot of $, “is a great loving father” (that could care less about his kids), and that Linked In member is sure to find plenty of supply with a “job” (bc stay at home mom’s raising that Narcs kids alone for 15 years are gold diggers and stole his kids). Reply I’ve tried Match and POF and Senior People Meet and got nothing. I don’t get drunk and fall in salad bars while out with them.
People who are confident in themselves and have healthy boundaries would tell someone to take a hike instead of agreeing to send a full body shot to someone they barely know. He even took a cover narcissist test and scored pretty high. I wish I read this before getting into a relationship with him. We started to met up even though he really was not my type. If so, click here to report it Hi there ,good afternoon how re you doing today and how is the weather treating you over there right now ,it was your profile i found very interested on here and wanting to know you more better if you don,t mind and how long have you been on this site and what are you really looking for in a man on here as i,m all looking for that special woman that we can both spend the life together as i,m one man woman and hoping to meet the same in a woman …David” Reply OMG this sounds so much like the Master NARC I was with for 9 years. I managed to get him out of my life it’s wasn’t easy. Well, on Match I got a narc charmer who wanted to marry me within three months. I’ve went on dozens of dates and the only men I might be interested in have no interest in me. It’s like they think they are WAY cooler than they really are. Reply I used okcupid for several months after a breakup, hoping to meet friends and slowly get to know them and see if it develops into more. I ended up enduring a covert narc who could actually be more avoidant, and then a particularly nasty covert narc after the first one!
I met two of the international contacts, I traveled to one, the other traveled to meet me, and in both cases it was obvious that we would be friends, but no more. she broke up with me in an e mail I read after I got out of the hospital, saying she’s going to work on her relationship with her husband of 35 years. I met her at the hospital she works at, She is a ceo of. I wish I had an easy answer to help with your anger, but it’s definitely a process. There are typically four phases to recovery from these relationships, which would require more than I can offer here in the comments, but a good place to start would be the Beginner’s Healing Toolkit that I have for free here on the site.
Even those two fizzled out in the past 2 years, but I still feel enriched for the encounters and lessons. I know this is a stretch and an emotional work-out for introverts, but there are meet-up groups and coaches for that, too 🙂 . One I didn’t know she was bisexual, and has four grown children, Or that she was married. What can I do besides therapy, and working out, and affirmations? It typically takes several different healing modalities to recover from narcissistic abuse, including transformational healing practices. I’ve never been on Tinder but had one “relationship” from OKC and one from POF.
I am not interested in another phony fake wolf pretending to be a sheep of the Good Shepherd. Anyone who asks for a full body shot objectifies people and is forming an opinion about someone in the same way they would as they scour a catalog for various items. Reply I have been single three years now and remain friends with my ex bf no sex involved but he wants to I don’t we don’t argue about it I tell him I’m just not interested in having sex anymore it’s a lie im just not interested in having sex with him. in fact I would keep a low profile and just browse other people’s profiles and try to see who might not be a narc…
After a rather disconnected experience sitting through an experimental movie, I ended the conversation. She had more than one home, so I never new about her other life. Kathleen Reply Hi Kathleen, Thanks for commenting and for reading my books.
I met the POF guy shortly after Thanksgiving and had a wonderful cozy holiday with him.
By April we were in Key West together with the coconut umbrella drinks.
–The key to success really seems to be to practice self-validation and go out in the real world, attend meet-up group events, and be very attentive to the people around you in every day situations. I am grateful for Kim’s transparent description of Tinder and POF, no need to waste my own time or recommend it to anyone, thank you much! Wishing you the best, Kim Reply When I finally looked to see if the ex narcopath had dating profiles I found some where around ten on various dating/hook up/swinger sites. My tip to anyone newly dating someone is to do a Google search on their phone number. Both only lasted about 5 months and were absolute train wrecks.
The ex had his number posted on nearly all of the profiles I found. Both narcissists, lying, cheating manipulative jerks. The opening of this post made me laugh and shake my head.